The Story of Emma and Sarah
Emma and Sarah completed medical school together, but their parents paid off Sarah’s student loans while ignoring Emma’s. This story is not just about recognition, but about family feelings, fairness, and secrets that had been hidden for a long time.
“Sarah deserves it more,” Mom said without looking up from the stack of gourmet cupcakes she was arranging on the tiered display.
“Sarah has always been more dedicated to her studies, while you’ve had other interests.” The casual dismissal hurt worse than if she had slapped me. I stood in my parents’ kitchen, my medical school diploma still fresh in its frame, trying to process what I had just heard.
“Mom, we both graduated with honors, we had the exact same GPA. I don’t understand why you and Dad would pay off Sarah’s loans but not mine.”
My mom sighed, finally looking up at me with that familiar expression of mild disappointment.
“You have a mentor like Dr. Fleming who has taken an interest in you, but Sarah doesn’t have that.
” I tried to keep my calm. “So, I’m being punished for finding my own mentorship opportunities?” My dad walked in and put his arm around Mom’s shoulder.
“No one’s punishing you, Emma. We’re just being practical. Sarah needs more help than you. You’ve always known how to figure things out.”
“Figure things out?” I asked, trying to suppress my anger.
“I’ve worked myself to exhaustion to pay for everything, while Sarah got all of your support.”
Tomorrow is Sarah’s debt-free celebration, organized by my parents. They invited family, friends, and even some of our former professors. The invitation read “Celebrating Sarah’s achievement,” as if graduating medical school debt-free was solely her accomplishment, instead of a financial decision made by our parents.
“I need to head out,” I said. “Early shift at the hospital tomorrow.”
“Will you still make it to Sarah’s party?” Mom asked, concerned, not about me but about how my absence might affect Sarah’s special day.
“I’ll be there,” I promised, even though the thought made my stomach twist. As I walked to my car, my phone buzzed with a message from Dr. Fleming: “Need to speak with you urgently about the Patterson Fellowship. Big news.” I stared at the screen, a cold realization settling over me. My parents’ favoritism wasn’t just unfair; it was about to become publicly humiliating, and there was nothing I could do to stop it.
Sarah and I had always been on divergent paths. I was the quiet one, while she was the outgoing one, excelling in sports and socializing. My parents attended every one of her soccer games, while my science fair victories got a brief “Good job, Emma” and a pat on the head. When we both decided to pursue medicine, my parents seemed thrilled for Sarah, but with me, they had concerns about whether I could handle the pressure.
“Medical school isn’t just about being smart, Emma,” my dad warned, “It’s about determination and grit. Sarah has always pushed herself harder.”
The irony was painful. During my undergraduate studies at Ohio State, I maintained a perfect GPA while working part-time to cover expenses, while Sarah struggled with organic chemistry and physics, requiring expensive tutors. When I scored in the 98th percentile on the MCAT, they simply nodded and said, “That’s nice, dear.” Despite everything, I never resented Sarah. She was my sister, my twin, and I loved her. She didn’t create our parents’ favoritism, she just benefited from it. Sometimes I even thought she felt uncomfortable with their obvious preference, though she never said anything. We both got accepted to the same medical school, and for four years we studied together, supporting each other through grueling rotations and celebrating each other’s successes. I thought maybe, finally, my parents would see us as equally accomplished. But instead, they found new ways to elevate Sarah’s achievements while minimizing mine. When I was selected to present research at a national conference, Sarah coincidentally received an award for community service that same weekend. Guess which event our parents attended?
But everything changed during our final year when Dr. Vivian Fleming, a renowned neurosurgeon, took notice of my research on pediatric traumatic brain injuries. Under her mentorship, I flourished.
“You have a gift for research, Emma,” Dr. Fleming told me once.
“You see patterns that others miss. That kind of insight can’t be taught.” If only my parents could see me through her eyes.
One morning before Sarah’s celebration, I met Dr. Fleming in her office. She was a striking woman in her 60s with silver hair and penetrating blue eyes that missed nothing.
“Emma, sit down,” she said, gesturing to the chair across from her desk.
“I have extraordinary news.” My heart raced. For weeks, I had been waiting to hear about the Patterson Fellowship at Johns Hopkins, the most prestigious neurosurgical research position in the country. Only one graduating medical student nationwide would receive it.
“The committee has made their decision on the Patterson Fellowship,” Dr. Fleming said, her expression neutral. I held my breath.
“They’ve selected you,” she said, breaking into a broad smile.
“Congratulations, Dr. Emma Collins. You’re going to Baltimore.”
Joy, disbelief, and validation crashed over me. The Patterson Fellowship, the pinnacle achievement for any neuro researcher. Mine.
“I don’t know what to say,” I stammered.
“You earned this,” Dr. Fleming said firmly.
“Your research on neurovascular regeneration after traumatic injury was groundbreaking. The committee was particularly impressed with your dual approach, combining surgical innovation with pharmacological intervention.” The fellowship included a generous stipend, housing allowance, and most importantly, complete loan forgiveness. I would be debt-free, just like Sarah, but through my own merit, not parental favoritism.
At Sarah’s party, I felt out of place as I watched people focus on her. The banners, the speeches, the decorations—everything was about Sarah. There was no mention of my achievements. But when Dr. Fleming arrived and announced my Patterson Fellowship, the atmosphere in the room shifted. People turned their attention to me, congratulating me on my work. My parents, however, remained frozen, processing the news with shock and disbelief as their carefully constructed narrative about their daughters began to unravel.
Jessica, seeing the unfairness, stood up to speak:
“This celebration feels incomplete. Emma and I both graduated with the same GPA, we both worked incredibly hard, and frankly, Emma worked harder because she did it without the support system I had.” A hush fell over the crowd. My parents looked stunned.
“This isn’t the time,” my mom whispered.
“It’s exactly the time,” Jessica insisted. “I can’t accept recognition that excludes my sister. It’s not right, and it never has been.”
Dr. Fleming chose that moment to stand.
“If I might add something,” she said authoritatively, cutting through the murmurs.
“This seems like an opportune time to share some news about Emma that many of you may not be aware of. Emma’s research on neurovascular regeneration has earned her the Patterson Fellowship at Johns Hopkins. For those unfamiliar, this is the most prestigious position offered to a graduating medical student in the country. It comes with full loan forgiveness and a substantial stipend.” Gasps and murmurs spread through the room. Dr. Woo, one of the attending doctors, was looking at me with newfound interest.
“In fact,” Dr. Fleming continued, “the selection committee specifically cited Emma’s innovative dual approach methodology, which she developed largely independently while balancing a full clinical rotation schedule.” The room erupted into applause, genuine and enthusiastic.
After Dr. Fleming’s announcement, things shifted dramatically. Faculty members who had previously gravitated toward Sarah now came to congratulate me. My clinical supervisors shared glowing stories about my work with patients, stories I hadn’t even realized they’d noticed. My parents remained at their table, their expressions a complicated mix of shock, confusion, and dawning horror. Sarah beamed at me, clearly proud.
The following week, my parents came to my apartment with gift bags and forced smiles.
“We’ve been thinking,” my dad said, placing a small box on the coffee table. “With both of you graduating and starting your careers, we should get you girls something special.” Inside was a rose gold watch, identical to the one they had given Sarah for her birthday six months earlier.
“It’s lovely,” I said, without reaching for it. “Though a bit late.”
Mom’s eyes filled with tears.
“We love you both equally,” she insisted.
“Maybe you do,” I replied, keeping my voice steady, “but you haven’t treated us equally.”
Three weeks later, I stood in my empty apartment, the last box packed and ready for the movers. Jessica sat on the windowsill, watching me tape up the last container of books.
“I still can’t believe you’re leaving next week,” she said. “Detroit won’t be the same without you.”
“You’ll be too busy with your residency to even notice I’m gone,” I teased, though there was truth in it. We had been inseparable through medical school, but our paths were finally diverging.
“I keep thinking about what Mom and Dad did,” Jessica said suddenly. “Or what they didn’t do. All these years, I thought I was the lucky one because they paid more attention to me. But they were really holding me back, making me dependent on their approval.”
I sat beside her on the windowsill. “You didn’t do anything wrong, Jess.” “I didn’t do enough right either,” she countered. “I should have spoken up sooner.” She sighed. “They’re devastated, you know. Mom keeps crying about how you must hate them. Dad’s telling everyone who’ll listen about his brilliant daughter at Johns Hopkins, like he personally funded your research.”
“Let them,” I said, surprising myself with how little it bothered me now. “Their approval doesn’t define me anymore.”
And it was true. The constant ache of seeking validation from parents who would never truly see me had finally subsided. Dr. Fleming’s mentorship had shown me what genuine support looked like: challenging me when I needed pushing, defending me when I needed protection, and always, always seeing my potential without qualification.
“So, what happens now?” Jessica asked. “With us, I mean.”
I took her hand. “We find our own way forward, without the competition they created between us.”
“I’d like that,” Jessica smiled, squeezing my hand. “Dr. Emma Collins, Patterson Fellow. I’m so proud of you, sis.” For the first time in years, I felt completely at peace. The path ahead was challenging, but clear, and entirely mine to navigate on my own terms.