My daughter has recently started exhibiting very strange behavior.
She was always an obedient child, quick to learn new things, and never picky with food. But recently, whenever I called her to eat, she would refuse to sit at the table. Instead, she would take her plate of food and go into the bathroom, where she had set up a small chair. She would lock the door behind her and only then begin to eat.
At first, I thought it was just a game, a temporary habit that would pass. But when this behavior continued every day for an entire month, I began to feel worried. I started wondering if there was something wrong with her that I didn’t understand. I tried talking to her, but every time I asked, she would just respond with silence.
One morning, I decided I could no longer wait. I installed a hidden camera in the bathroom to monitor her behavior. I wanted to find out the real reason behind her actions.
When lunchtime came, I saw her do the same thing again—take her plate and go into the bathroom, lock the door, and sit in her little chair to eat. I watched through the camera, and she ate calmly, as usual. But then, something unexpected happened. I heard her say loudly:
– That’s it! Alex won’t get anything!
I was startled and almost dropped the phone out of my hand. Alex is her older brother, and I couldn’t understand why she would say such a thing. I asked myself, Could there be something between them that I don’t know about?
Immediately, I called my son and asked sternly:
– Do you know why your sister always eats in the bathroom?
My son, speaking calmly, replied:
– Yes, I know.
– Why?
I was nervous, not knowing what he would say. Then he said:
– She’s afraid I’ll steal her food. That’s why she locks herself in the bathroom.
It suddenly clicked, but I still wasn’t completely clear. Why would she be so afraid? I asked further:
– Have you stolen her food?
He shrugged and answered nonchalantly:
– Yeah, a couple of times. But it’s not my fault. Her food always tastes better. It’s always better than mine.
I was stunned. It turned out to be much simpler than I had imagined. My daughter wasn’t facing any serious issues. She was simply afraid that her brother would steal a piece of her favorite food again.
And more than that, she is a very principled and strong-willed child. She couldn’t stand the idea of anyone taking what belonged to her. So, she decided to protect her food by any means necessary, even if it meant locking herself in the bathroom to eat alone.
The next day, I called my daughter and gently asked:
– Why do you eat in the bathroom, sweetheart? I’m worried.
She looked at me, her eyes filled with concern. After a moment of silence, she quietly said:
– I’m scared that Alex will eat my food. He always takes it.
I sighed, rubbed her head, and said:
– I understand, sweetheart. But you don’t need to lock yourself in the bathroom. Alex won’t take your food anymore. I’ll talk to him.
She nodded, still unsure, but I promised to address the issue and reassured her further. After that conversation, I also sat down with Alex, asking him to respect his sister’s food and not take it anymore.
From then on, everything returned to normal. My daughter no longer locked herself in the bathroom to eat and joined us at the table. However, I was still amazed by her strength and principles, despite her young age.